The Conversational Model approach to clinical psychotherapy allows my clients to organically move forward in their lives. I encourage people to bring the everyday experiences into our sessions and to talk about anything that comes to mind. Often what you may think is trivial and unimportant can be the key to a whole new unfolding.

Over time you will relax, feel safe and let your mind and emotions fluidly “choose” what they need to talk about without too much thinking about what “should be said”. The ritual and routine of our work together will activate a deeply reflective process which seems to take on a life of its own. Together we will explore dreams, fantasy life, internal thinking processes and conversations, internal reactions to everyday and past events and, importantly, past and present relationships. We will also explore your relationship to me as a therapist as this can often reflect some of the relational patterns that you may have established over your lifetime.

As an embodiment specialist I also uniquely incorporate the body into sessions by asking about your bodily responses to the things which are discussed during sessions. Gradually and patiently, we tease out the meaning and understanding of your internal processes, patterns, and external outlook on life’s events.

Coaching, Education and Embodied Counselling

Most of us never received any real sex education, beyond the fear of STIs and pregnancy. Most of us understand the mechanics of physical sex, we fumble and bumble along, many of us porn educated in relation to sexuality…. but what of our individual eroticism, intimacy, relating, loving, arousal, and pleasure?

In his book The Erotic Mind, Dr Jack Morin describes erotisism as “the interplay of sexual arousal with thew challenges of living and loving” – Jack Morin.

Sessions are an integration of ancient practices such as embodiment, meditation and mindfulness, with the pioneering insights of neuroscience and somatic learning theory and the mutual forming of intentions and boundaries. My approach is somatic and practical, that means you will learn by doing. You will be invited to get out of your head and into your body to become in touch with your physical, emotional, psychological and erotic landscape.

You may not know exactly what it is that you are after (or maybe you do!!!) Reaching out is the first step. I will work closely with you to clarify, refine and understand your specific needs. I provide a non-judgemental, inclusive space where you can talk openly about your life, sex, relationships and sexual history. All of you is welcome.

Each session is unique and informed by your personal history and desired result.


Somatic Sexology & Embodiment Therapy

One on One or Couple Sessions

These 90 minute therapeutic and educational sessions are available face to face at my Mullumbimby studio. Online sessions are also available to clients all over the world.

Call me to make a booking on: +61 (0)414 810 630

Online & Phone Sessions

The option of an online or phone session is available for those who can’t see me face to face. We can use Zoom or WhatsApp – whichever you’re most comfortable with.

These are very similar to face to face sessions. Booking Is done directly with me and you will be sent a link and confirmation email with details regarding your session and payments etc.

Call me to make a booking on: +61 (0)414 810 630

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Workshops & Guest Speaking

I can tailor workshops and guest speaking requests to suit a specific group. Topics for workshops and speaking events could include:

  • Understanding Sex, and Sexuality
  • Mind-Body Connection and Sex
  • Disability and Sexuality
  • Becoming more Orgasmic
  • Hardwired to Connect, how our neurology informs us
  • Tantra and neurology
  • The physiology of Arousal
  • Exploring breath as an Erotic Pump
  • Erotic Stillness, the profoundly Unproductive
  • …and more!
Explore at any age! But don’t leave it too late.
Cyd Crossman


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