What is Sex Coaching?

Somatic sexology is the meeting of somatics (focussing awareness through the body), with sexology (the scientific study of human sexuality).

It is the merging of practices from time-tested traditions such as yoga, meditation and tantra, with cutting edge research in neuroscience, psychology and somatic learning theory.

Somatic sexology develops ‘embodiment’, which is a deeper presence, awareness, and understanding of what is going in your body and in sex. Embodiment releases body-mind restrictions that inhibit pleasure, and allows space for greater growth, choice, and play.

Visit the Institute of Somatic Sexuality to learn more.

What is Embodied Therapy?

Embodied Therapy develops your potential to live fully, and empowers you to direct your own growth and learning. It teaches you awareness around what makes you feel safe, what your boundaries are and it teaches you about your consent.

Breakthroughs in science and technologies this century are showing us that every aspect of our lives, including our bodies, thoughts, emotions, relationships, eroticism, and spirituality, are aspects of an interconnected system that develop, learn and grow together.

In learning to live more in the moment and experience life more fully through your body, you develop greater choice in your life experience, the freedom to direct our own growth and development, and more ease with the process of living.

“To be fully embodied means to be at one with who we are, in every respect, including our physical being, our emotions, and the totality of our situation”.

Reginald A Ray

What is Sexological Bodywork?

Sexological Bodyworkers are Somatic Sex Educators, supporting individuals, couples and groups to learn to direct their own personal and sexual growth. We also facilitate learning about the body, sex and sexuality, as well as working through sexual issues or concerns. 

Sexological Bodyworkers offer education and coaching to support people to deepen their experience of embodiment. 

Sexological Bodyworkers believe that sexual health and erotic education are basic human rights. 

We use a variety of instructive modalities that bring awareness to limiting patterns and habits and offer body-based experiential learning opportunities. 

Recurring patterns can arise in relationships that limit people’s capacity for intimacy. Working with a Sexological Bodyworker can provide a safe, supportive environment outside these relationships, to openly work through and resolve issues at a relaxed pace. 

Sexological Bodywork is not clinical; it is individualised holistic education. 

“Cyd holds all of these strings to her bow, but it’s the learning and wisdom which come from her life experience that really enables her to lift her Sexology and Embodiment practice to the next level.”


Learn more about Cyd.

Why would I visit Cyd?

The sessions have a powerful way of finding the clients real want and/or desire beyond the head chatter, working with the clients body/mind can create a whole new narrative.

Clients can come with a sexual issue or concern, (sometimes it takes a problem in our sex lives to make us take the action towards healing or help), OR they want to work on embodiment, diving deeper into the body, unraveling and finding more choice and accessing body intelligence.

There are as many reasons to book a session as there are people on the planet and sometimes you might not know exactly why you feel to book but with attunement and awareness your real desire or want or need will emerge. Thats what I am good at. “All of you is Welcome”

Contact Cyd to make a booking if you are experiencing or wish to work on any of the following and more:

  • Accessing more Orgasm / Pleasure
  • Menopause and tantra
  • Post-natal, re-connecting with your ‘new’ body
  • Body image
  • Communication skills
  • Vaginismus & painful sex
  • Boundaries & consent
  • Physiology of breath
  • Consent and Boundary work
  • Self-agency
  • Mindfulness & embodiment practices 
  • Difficulties with orgasm
  • Anatomy & pleasure
  • Performance anxiety
  • Ejaculation / climax choice
  • Expression & voicing desires 
  • Eroticism & sexuality
  • Breath & movement
  • Desire discrepancy / mismatched libido.

I want to be more in touch with my own body, more aware of its important natural rhythms…

“My journey with Cyd has been gentle, respectful, and deeply supportive of the dissolution of trauma.

My menstrual cycle has regulated and I am enjoying a more playful, luscious, and honouring relationship to my body coupled with an obvious increased sexual aliveness.”

Georgi – Brisbane

Working with Cyd has been grounding, supportive, and heart-opening. Cyd has a real talent for seeing what would help me most “in the moment” with her approach being warm and professional.

I have felt deeply supported to get more authentic with myself and my intimate relationships, accessing parts of myself that have been buried for years. Cyd’s work has been highly informative and educational around physiology, anatomy, pleasure, and orgasm and has deeply supported me in my primary relationship.

I would highly recommend Cyd`s work if you are looking for sensual transformation, deep healing, building confidence.”

Lucinda – Northern New South Wales

I want to feel more comfortable and confident in my masculinity…

“In all my years I have never felt as honoured by a woman – safe and seen with no expectations of who I am supposed to be. By working with Cyd I have experienced a whole new level of body awareness.

I feel increasingly powerful and masculine with a sense of grace and ease.”

Troy Lloyd Molineux

“Cyd Crossman is one of a small and highly influential group of women investigating the intersection of love, sexuality, and self-awareness.

A respected, grounded, and authentic practitioner, Cyd’s work focuses on developing a more respectful, compassionate, and truthful relationship with our own sexuality, as an essential requirement of a more just, equitable, and enlightened human society.”

Cameron Burgess, Uncompromise

“Deeply relaxing…
Body awareness,
Aware of breathing into cock and balls,
Heart opening.
Supported and held by Cyd.”

Edward Tyrie

I want to experience orgasm to its fullest potential…

“Cyd has an incredibly refreshing and inspiring style of teaching. She is honest, real, and authentic and holds a profoundly safe space where everything is welcome.

With her grounded and skillful facilitation, she guides you into a deeper and more real connection with your full sensual self. It was in Cyd’s classes that I learned the incredible power of breath and how to move energy to create amazing body sensations….in fact, I experienced my first energetic orgasms in Cyd’s class.

This knowledge of breath was an amazing tool for the birth of my first child, I was able to stay connected to myself and ride the intensity of the sensations.”

Kylie Ezart

With her beautiful and non-confrontational, often funny, gorgeously sensual, and down-to-earth practical approach, Cyd shares the beauty of her learnings and helps you discover what can happen when you know, understand, trust and love your body.”

Carolyn Parrella

Little Green Pod: Eco sex — we’re rooting for you, Planet Earth!

The ABC’s Fiona Poole gets green between the sheets with sex therapists  Cyd Crossman and Martha Lee. Solar vibrators, vegan condoms, organic lube, and dry rooting – Adults only.